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親子之間:給孩子機會表現自己

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【新三才首發】原本小孩這個週六早上應該要去上他先前小學老師義務指導的作文班,這個班從暑假快結束時開始,到現在已經上過四次課了,還剩下兩次週末的課程。

結果,今天晚上接他回家的路上,他跟我說不想去上了,我問了他問甚麼?他雖然有解釋了一些理由,包括老師都給很難寫的題目,以及老師的教法他不喜歡等等。但我覺得太牽強,以及老師都這樣熱心的義務指導,但來回幾次溝通無效。最後,我使出老爸的威嚴,認真的告訴他:「不行,最後這兩個周六還是得去上完。」

結果,小孩罕見地立刻回答我說:「不要。」我當下楞了一下子,心想:「怎麼才剛上小學五年級,就開始出現青春期叛逆的徵兆啦。」原本當下還是想要用權威來讓他同意去上課,但是沉默了一會兒之後,我轉個念頭,想說倒不如激發他的鬥志,看看他如何反應。

於是,我跟他說:「這樣吧,我給你一個機會表現看看。等一下回到家之後,你就來寫一篇作文,題目自訂,寫完後給我看,我認為你文章夠好了,你就可以不用再去上課。這樣如何?」

原本我以為他應該會覺得這樣一定沒機會過關,所以也就還是會乖乖去上課吧。結果他也很堅定地立刻回答我說:「好,我來寫。」這下,換我有點意外了,但卻也認為不失為一個親子互動與教育的機會。

回到家後,小孩就自己在房間裡動筆寫作。大約一個小時後,他把成果放到我桌上來,剛好我在洗澡沒看到。於是等我洗完澡出來,就看到他已經放我桌上的一張紙,裡面打開就是他寫的一篇作文,旁邊還附上一個小插圖。

原本也打算認真挑出他文章不足之處,結果看完文章之後,我默默地把紙張闔上。這篇文章是一篇信件體的體裁,內容是他寫給當年我送給他的第一盒樂高積木,他把這盒積木當成朋友般擬人化,寫了一封想念的信給「他」,以及表達「他」將會永遠存在他心中等等。

雖然幾個詞句用法有待改進,但不論是題目、文體選擇、段落分布、比喻,以及文章流暢度,都真的已經有一定水準,於是,換我完全服氣了。我走到他的房間,原本他還以為我還是會要他去上課,表情開始有點委屈,結果我拍拍他的肩膀說:「不用去上課了,你的文章圖文並茂,很棒。」他當下的表情也由訝異轉為欣喜,於是,父子之間的爭議就此圓滿落幕。

(作者:張季民)

(責任編輯:姜啟明)

(文章來源:新三才首發)

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