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親子之間:成績重要?還是背後的道理重要?

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【新三才首發】小學五年級的兒子最近期中考,數學科目考得很不理想,那天回家時,把考卷拿給我看的時候,我一開始也嚇了一跳,因為分數確實偏低了,連兒子自己都深受打擊,悶悶不樂。

不過,原本兒子預期我看到他這樣的成績應該會生氣責罵他,所以不但他自己心情很不好,也主動跟我說以後他會上課作筆記,回家多多練習等等,看能否讓下次考試的成績可以回升。但我反而冷靜下來思考,究竟對小孩來說,是考卷上的分數重要,還是背後的道理重要呢?

想了一會之後,我對他說:「兒子,你想想看,如果數學不好,以後會如何?」令人訝異的是,兒子竟然回答我說:「應該會找不到工作吧,去面試如果主管知道你數學不好,應該就不會錄取你吧。」我其實不是這個用意,於是我引導他思考說:「是這樣嗎?你想想看,有很多工作應該都不太需要用到數學哩,而且再過十幾年,等你真的大學畢業要出來工作的時候,那時應該有更多AI人工智能的服務與商店,應該會有更多工作都不需要數學了,因為電腦、自動設備都會幫你計算啊。」

兒子聽了,有點疑惑地問說:「爸,那你的意思是,我就不用學好數學囉?」

我聽了笑了笑說:「不是的,我還真的不是這樣的意思。反而,我也覺得數學很重要,但是不是因為它是學校規定的主科而重要,而是因為數學可以培養你的邏輯思考能力而重要。」我繼續說。「很多有名的大科學家,例如牛頓、愛因斯坦,都是數學很好的人,他們透過數學的邏輯與能力,讓他們發現更多自然以及宇宙的奧祕呢。」

「所以,如果你真的能了解數學為何對你很重要,而不是只是為了考卷上的分數,那我很支持你願意主動改善與加強學習數學的方法,上課作筆記,回家多練習,都是不錯的方法,但你得能堅持做下去才行。」我最後對兒子說。

兒子聽完之後,可以理解我要他思考的內容,也開心接受我的鼓勵,於是我跟他一起檢討了考卷的內容,把他沒搞懂的地方,以及粗心寫錯的地方一一搞清楚與訂正之後,他的心情也就恢復了,也更能體會數學的意義了。

(作者:張季民)

(責任編輯:姜啟明)

(文章來源:新三才首發)

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