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亲子之间:给孩子机会表现自己

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【新三才首发】原本小孩这个周六早上应该要去上他先前小学老师义务指导的作文班,这个班从暑假快结束时开始,到现在已经上过四次课了,还剩下两次周末的课程。

结果,今天晚上接他回家的路上,他跟我说不想去上了,我问了他问甚么?他虽然有解释了一些理由,包括老师都给很难写的题目,以及老师的教法他不喜欢等等。但我觉得太牵强,以及老师都这样热心的义务指导,但来回几次沟通无效。最后,我使出老爸的威严,认真的告诉他:「不行,最后这两个周六还是得去上完。」

结果,小孩罕见地立刻回答我说:「不要。」我当下楞了一下子,心想:「怎么才刚上小学五年级,就开始出现青春期叛逆的征兆啦。」原本当下还是想要用权威来让他同意去上课,但是沉默了一会儿之后,我转个念头,想说倒不如激发他的斗志,看看他如何反应。

于是,我跟他说:「这样吧,我给你一个机会表现看看。等一下回到家之后,你就来写一篇作文,题目自订,写完后给我看,我认为你文章够好了,你就可以不用再去上课。这样如何?」

原本我以为他应该会觉得这样一定没机会过关,所以也就还是会乖乖去上课吧。结果他也很坚定地立刻回答我说:「好,我来写。」这下,换我有点意外了,但却也认为不失为一个亲子互动与教育的机会。

回到家后,小孩就自己在房间里动笔写作。大约一个小时后,他把成果放到我桌上来,刚好我在洗澡没看到。于是等我洗完澡出来,就看到他已经放我桌上的一张纸,里面打开就是他写的一篇作文,旁边还附上一个小插图。

原本也打算认真挑出他文章不足之处,结果看完文章之后,我默默地把纸张阖上。这篇文章是一篇信件体的体裁,内容是他写给当年我送给他的第一盒乐高积木,他把这盒积木当成朋友般拟人化,写了一封想念的信给「他」,以及表达「他」将会永远存在他心中等等。

虽然几个词句用法有待改进,但不论是题目、文体选择、段落分布、比喻,以及文章流畅度,都真的已经有一定水准,于是,换我完全服气了。我走到他的房间,原本他还以为我还是会要他去上课,表情开始有点委屈,结果我拍拍他的肩膀说:「不用去上课了,你的文章图文并茂,很棒。」他当下的表情也由讶异转为欣喜,于是,父子之间的争议就此圆满落幕。

(作者:张季民)

(责任编辑:姜启明)

(文章来源:新三才首发)

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