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亲子之间:成绩重要?还是背后的道理重要?

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【新三才首发】小学五年级的儿子最近期中考,数学科目考得很不理想,那天回家时,把考卷拿给我看的时候,我一开始也吓了一跳,因为分数确实偏低了,连儿子自己都深受打击,闷闷不乐。

不过,原本儿子预期我看到他这样的成绩应该会生气责骂他,所以不但他自己心情很不好,也主动跟我说以后他会上课作笔记,回家多多练习等等,看能否让下次考试的成绩可以回升。但我反而冷静下来思考,究竟对小孩来说,是考卷上的分数重要,还是背后的道理重要呢?

想了一会之后,我对他说:「儿子,你想想看,如果数学不好,以后会如何?」令人讶异的是,儿子竟然回答我说:「应该会找不到工作吧,去面试如果主管知道你数学不好,应该就不会录取你吧。」我其实不是这个用意,于是我引导他思考说:「是这样吗?你想想看,有很多工作应该都不太需要用到数学哩,而且再过十几年,等你真的大学毕业要出来工作的时候,那时应该有更多AI人工智能的服务与商店,应该会有更多工作都不需要数学了,因为电脑、自动设备都会帮你计算啊。」

儿子听了,有点疑惑地问说:「爸,那你的意思是,我就不用学好数学囉?」

我听了笑了笑说:「不是的,我还真的不是这样的意思。反而,我也觉得数学很重要,但是不是因为它是学校规定的主科而重要,而是因为数学可以培养你的逻辑思考能力而重要。」我继续说。「很多有名的大科学家,例如牛顿、爱因斯坦,都是数学很好的人,他们透过数学的逻辑与能力,让他们发现更多自然以及宇宙的奥祕呢。」

「所以,如果你真的能了解数学为何对你很重要,而不是只是为了考卷上的分数,那我很支持你愿意主动改善与加强学习数学的方法,上课作笔记,回家多练习,都是不错的方法,但你得能坚持做下去才行。」我最后对儿子说。

儿子听完之后,可以理解我要他思考的内容,也开心接受我的鼓励,于是我跟他一起检讨了考卷的内容,把他没搞懂的地方,以及粗心写错的地方一一搞清楚与订正之后,他的心情也就恢复了,也更能体会数学的意义了。

(作者:张季民)

(责任编辑:姜启明)

(文章来源:新三才首发)

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