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少了干扰,才有乐趣

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【新三才首发】带女儿去科技馆,她要体验潜艇。潜艇设定的航程大概有五分钟,小朋友可以根据屏幕上的提示,点击上浮或下潜按钮,看到海底的不同风光。

女儿一开始坐在后面的座位上,从侧面窗户往外看各种小鱼、水草。一个航程结束后,有小朋友离开,女儿就往前去,想要自己操作。但有个小男孩儿,跑过去抢先占了座位。我看到场面混乱,小朋友们没有任何章法。

我对女儿讲,既然那位小哥哥坐那儿了,就是艇长,等艇长航行结束,她再接任下一任艇长。女儿听我这样说,就点头答应。我又和小男孩商量,问他是否可以指认女儿为下一任艇长,他听到自己有这样的责任和权力,很高兴地答应了。

等航行结束,女儿坐了过去,开始操作潜水艇。但旁边又过来一个小男孩儿,对女儿指指点点,甚至伸手去抢着按按钮。女儿明显不高兴,但她忍着没发脾气。如果这样下去,谁也玩不好,我感到有必要给孩子们定一下规矩。

我告诉小男孩儿,开潜水艇也是需要小朋友合作的,妹妹是艇长,那么他可以坐在旁边,做副艇长,帮助艇长关注雷达信号。这项工作很重要,因为涉及到潜水艇和乘客的安全。小男孩答应了,不再干涉女儿,而是认真盯着屏幕上的雷达信号。

就这样,女儿的潜水艇之旅步入正轨,没有人再上前争抢,因为大家都清楚了自己的职责。少了乱哄哄的争抢,小朋友们更关注是屏幕上显示的海底世界,大家看到鲨鱼、水草、珊瑚、海沟,都唏嘘不已,仿佛真的到海底一游。

我忍不住感慨,人与人之间的协作多么重要,小朋友们一起游戏尚且如此。不仅协作,还要避免相互干扰,要分工明确,每个人知道自己该做什么。许多人干扰别人,其实并不是本性如此,而是对自己负责什么不清楚,看到问题又觉得自己有能力去做。当分工明确了,这样的问题就可以避免了,每个人负责好自己该管的事,与团队成员全力合作,乐趣也就源源不断了。

作者: Jasmine.

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