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橡皮风波

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【新三才首发】前段时间,朋友送给女儿一块设计成口红状的橡皮,她很喜欢。每次写错字,拿出橡皮去擦,她都酷酷的,好像大人偶尔拿出口红涂一下的感觉。

我其实并不太主张用这种造型奇特的橡皮,有时候小孩子贪玩,上课因为一块橡皮分心也是正常的。后来发现,女儿倒是没有因为橡皮走神,但这块橡皮却惹起不少风波。

女儿的同学小伊喜欢这款口红橡皮,女儿就借给她玩,谁知这是一去无回。小伊太喜欢了,不肯还给女儿,把橡皮给强行霸下了。女儿不曾抢过别人的东西,自己的东西被人抢走,也不知道该怎么办。

回家和我们说起,我没太当回事儿。就是一块橡皮,小孩子一时喜欢不讲道理,可以理解。总之,我们没再追究,女儿喜欢口红橡皮,我们又给她买了一块,她高高兴兴的,我以为风波就此平息。

谁知,女儿回到学校,又因为橡皮被小伊盯上。小伊的霸道超出了我们的预想,她看到女儿有了新的口红橡皮,就趁女儿不注意把新的拿走了,然后把自己已经玩腻了的旧橡皮扔给女儿。女儿回到家,气呼呼的,说小伊不讲道理,抢了一次,又抢第二次。

听着女儿的话,我突然意识到,我们对于橡皮事件的处理太过随意。当女儿第一次被抢橡皮的时候,我们告诉她要宽容,这是没问题的,但没有讲清楚宽容与纵容的区别。小伊得逞一次,胆子就大了一些,看到新的橡皮毫不顾忌再次出手。所以,我们的处理方式一下影响了两个孩子。

一块橡皮,的确不是大事,但不能因“恶小而为之”。孩子们年纪尚小,现在因为一块橡皮而染上不好的习气,那是大人的责任。我们告诉女儿,人与人之间需要相互尊重,别人的东西不能随意动,所以她应当与小伊交流,让小伊归还橡皮……

回顾橡皮风波的始末,让我想到很多。心善并不表现在任由别人随心所欲,宽容也不代表无条件沉默。很多时候,我们对“小恶”视而不见,并不是因为自己大度,而是不想多事,也不想被人指责斤斤计较。其实,尽一己之力,对“大恶”、“小恶”都不姑息,维护正气,才是真正利人利己的吧。

作者: Jasmine.

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