感悟生活 语言的力量

语言的力量

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【新三才首发】最近,儿子开始学说话,只会简单的几个词,比如爸爸、妈妈、爷爷、奶奶。比较有意思的是,他能用这几个有限的字做很多事情。

会说这几个字,小家伙便能够表达需求。他伸着手叫“爸爸”的时候,意思是要爸爸抱。他站在门口叫“爷爷”的时候,是说想去爷爷奶奶家。

小家伙还能用这有限的几个字进行争论。比如,我手头有事,他拿水果让我喂,我说:去找爸爸喂。小家伙坚持:妈妈。意思是,让妈妈喂。我重复:让爸爸喂。小家伙不急不躁,还是说:妈妈。反复几个回合,见他不放弃,我只好让步,小家伙在这场“争论”中便胜利了。

更有趣的时候,孩子还学会了哼唱一些简单的旋律。他的歌词很简单,依然是爸爸、妈妈之类的称呼,但是会加上调子,拉长腔放声唱。只要我们逗他,说:唱歌给我们听吧。小家伙便微笑着开始歌唱:爸爸—-哎哎哎—-妈妈—-哎哎哎……虽说歌词简单,但他唱得认真,我们这些听众居然也品出了“动听”的感觉。

看着孩子能用这么几个简单的字完成那么多事,我感慨语言的力量是无穷的。有时候我们费尽口舌解释一个问题,或表达一种立场,免不了加入个人情绪。说的话很多,效果却未见得好。话多的人滴里嘟噜说一通,往往比不上字字珠玑的人说几个字更有说服力。

所以,真正服人的不是我们语速多快或说了多少,而是背后的道理和说话者的眼界与心胸。小孩子用几个字就能解决生活中的所有问题,那么大人是否也该反思一下,或许生活中说的很多话并没有意义。如若三思之后再出口,少说一些无用的话,反而能提高交流的效率吧……

 

作者: Jasmine.

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