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【新三才首发】傍晚,带女儿出去骑自行车。

女儿刚学会骑,对自行车近乎痴迷,一次骑一小时都不觉得累。不过,中间摔倒一次,把自行车的链子给摔掉了。女儿让我帮忙修,我突然意识到,我从来没有修过自行车的链子。小时候骑车,偶尔碰到掉链子的问题,有爸爸给修。现在女儿骑车,出问题都是先生解决。

所以,看着黑乎乎的车链子,我有点不知所措。可能最主要的,还是潜意识里有怕脏的念头。只要伸手碰到链子,肯定会沾上油。我劝女儿就此打住,把车推回去,让爸爸修。但女儿还不尽兴,眼巴巴看着我,想让我快快修好,她就能继续骑了。

我想,为了孩子,最起码应该尝试一下吧。身边没有任何工具,我从地上捡了根树枝,想用树枝把链子挑到齿轮上去,但树枝用起来不可能得心应手,根本挑不动链子。我又想,一根树枝力度不够,试一下两根吧,但问题还是一样。

看别人修车子的样子,只要链子卡上一个齿,慢慢转一下,整个链条就一节一节地卡上了。我拿树枝去摆弄链子,不可能像手指那样灵活,刚好把链子卡到齿上。所以,折腾一番后,我决定还是用手去动链子。

果然,只动了两下,链子就刚好卡到齿轮上了。转眼间,掉下的链子就恢复了原样。女儿高兴得拍手跳,然后就乐呵呵骑着走了。我低头看两手,都是黑乎乎的油,不过比起女儿的开心,这点付出真的不算什么了。

想想之前怕脏,要投机取巧,用树枝挑动链子,根本行不通。其实,害怕的东西有时候也并没那么恐怖。就像自行车链子上的油,我一点不想沾,但是最后真修好链子的时候,即使两手沾满了黑油也没什么,大不了再洗干净。倘若因为害怕脏或什么其它原本无所谓的东西而不敢举步,那就会耽误、错过很多了。

所以,每次当自己因为怕什么而犹豫时,首先要做的便是审视一下自我,到底怕的是什么。审视之后,也许很多问题就迎刃而解了。

作者: Jasmine.

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