以人为鉴 千古高风 刘庭式不弃盲女

千古高风 刘庭式不弃盲女

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【新三才首发】爱情往往是文学故事的重要题材,古往今来,无数人为爱痴狂,为爱坚贞。宋代书生刘庭式,在科举高中当了官之后,对突然失明的未婚妻不离不弃,成为千古美谈。

刘庭式,字得之,宋朝山东人,举进士。

刘庭式在还没有登第博得功名的时候,他的父母曾为他与同乡的一位姑娘确定了婚姻关系,只是还没有正式下聘礼。

后来,刘庭式高中进士,做了官,看来是前途远大,鹏程万里。可是那位女子,因生了一场大病,两眼全失明了。女子的家庭是种田人,家境贫寒。他们见刘庭式进士及第,成为了上等人,而自己家的女儿又成了瞎子,觉得配不上刘庭式,就不敢再提这门亲事。

朋友中,有人劝刘庭式:“那位女人已经瞎了双眼,你为了自己的前程和未来的家庭,就另行择亲吧。”

这姑娘还有个妹妹,也没有许配人家。也有人给刘庭式出主意说:“她的妹妹反正还没有嫁人,也很漂亮,你干脆娶她妹妹吧。”

刘庭式回答说:“我当年同她订立婚约时,已经把心许给她了。她现在瞎了眼睛,但是她的心还是好的。我若是违背当初的心愿,我的心倒是变坏了。她有目是我的妻子,无目也是我的妻子啊!再说:人人都会变得年老,妻子年老色衰时,我们也不能更换年轻美貌的女子吧?人得守诚信,自己不能变心。现在她眼睛瞎了,我不娶她,又有谁能娶她呢?”

就这样,他们二人结婚了。婚后,刘庭式和盲女十分恩爱。在调任密州通判后,他还把盲妻接到了任所。

刘庭式尽心尽力地照顾这位双目失明的妻子,夫妻和睦、幸福,先后养育了几个孩子。

后来,妻子在密州去世,刘庭式十分悲伤,一直不肯再娶。

后来刘庭式在庐山上养老,活了很久,才安祥地去世。

人们千百年来把忠贞视为传统美德,就算在未婚妻双目失明的情况下,刘庭式仍然对其忠贞不渝,不离不弃,这是一种责任,更是一种美德。

苏东坡知道这些情况后,对刘庭式的行为,也深受感动,说:“刘庭式真是一位情操高尚的人啊!”

家庭,是国家和社会的基石。这个基石,要摆得正,那么,这个国家与社会,也就稳定,坚固,繁荣,昌盛。而婚姻,又是家庭的基石。这个基石,如果摆得正,那么,家庭也就能够和睦,欣欣向荣。而个人的情操和品德,又是夫妻关系的基石,夫妻二人,都应该有诚信、善良、互敬、互爱的品性,这样才会有幸福美满的婚姻。说到底,提高人的心性,使大家都变得善良,真诚,正直,宽容,这才是至关重要的。

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